The invitations are in the mail for the weddings and graduations and all the festivities that go along such as brunches and cocktail soirees. Now you are faced with that age-old question “What shall I wear?”
Here are some helpful guidelines to follow… Look to the invitation for guidance when you are planning your wardrobe for the event. Most weddings are semi-formal, meaning a cocktail dress for evening and short dress for daytime. If the invitation does not specify dress, consider the event semi-formal. Other terms you may see include…
• White tie – The most formal affair. You should wear a long dress. Definitely your “best dress” affair.
• Black tie – Again a long dress or perhaps a very dressy cocktail dress.
• Black tie optional – This means the wedding party will be formal with men in tuxes, brides in long gowns. Again your options are long dress or a dressy short dress.
• Cocktail attire – A short dressy dress (yes, black is acceptable), wide-legged evening pants or a jumpsuit also would be appropriate.
•Beach weddings – No cut-offs or flip-flops! A floral chiffon short dress or colorful maxi is suitable. Consider your shoes when the wedding is on a sandy beach.
Timing is Everything
This doesn’t just apply to life, but also what to wear to a wedding. Remember, early in the day means less formal, after five means dressier. Consider the time of year – spring and summer call for lighter and brighter fabrics, but for fall and winter darker fabrics are best.
The Venue
Once again, check the invitation for the location of ceremony and the reception. Is it a church wedding, garden ceremony or sunset on the beach nuptials? Is the reception being held at a country club, convention center, barn or restaurant? Be sure to dress accordingly.
Final Advice
Don’t wear white. The bride should stand out on her day. If you have a white dress you are set on wearing, be sure to do a contrasting color in your accessories, even a jacket or wrap in a different color.
Do wear something feminine and appropriate out of respect for your hosts. Overtly sexy clothing (strapless, see-through) do not belong at a wedding. If you have to ask if it is appropriate it probably is not.
Always remember you have been invited to be part of someone’s special day, wedding or graduation, so dress like it.
Still confused? Stop by Pappagallo today and let us help you.
– by Nicki Smith
About the Author: Nicki Smith has been in the fashion industry for 36 years. She is the owner of and buyer for Pappagallo, located at 2020 Scottsville Road in Bowling Green (The Pines Shopping Center, next to Chico).
